Do You Have a Happy Sex
Life? Signs That You May
Many couples are often curious about their
sex life and how it compares to the sex life of others. In all honesty, you are
able to determine, on your own, if your sex life is good, happy, and
healthy. With that said, there are some
common signs that you may want to look for.
These signs, a few of which are outlined below, often signal a happy and
healthy sex life. Are you receiving the
ultimate level of satisfaction?
Sign #1 – You Have a
Healthy Relationship
Couples who have a
healthy relationship use communication with each other and often. They are able to let their partners know when
something is bothering them. Each partner understands that their relationship involves
two fully committed individuals. Couples
with happy and healthy sex lives often do not have unrealistic expectations or make
excess demands on their partners.
Sign #2 –
Experimentation in the Bedroom
Experimenting in the
bedroom is another sign that you may have a happy and healthy sex life. Of course, this does not mean that you and
your partner have to become the next big adult movie stars, but experimentation
can improve your sex life significantly.
It is also important to remember that experimentation comes in a number
of different formats. It can be
something as simple as having sex at a different time of the day, in a
different part of the house, or extended foreplay sessions. Fantasies and
fetishes are fun and okay, but only if both parties agree to them. Be sure to consult with your partner before
going “overboard.”
Sign #3 – Sex is Given
Freely
In many relationships,
especially long-term relationships, sex can be seen as a chore. This isn’t how it should be. Sex should be something that you and your
partner want, not a responsibility that needs to be fulfilled. If you and your partner are open to both spontaneously
engaging in the act, you may have a happy and healthy sex life. When you have sex because you want to, as
opposed to because it is your “job,” maximum benefit and pleasure is achieved.
Sign #4 – Sex Becomes a
Regular Part of the Relationship
It is no secret that
having an active sexual relationship can be difficult. With raising families, working, and other
common duties, sex can often take a back seat. Another sign that you may have a happy and
healthy sex life is if you don’t let your day to day responsibilities and
duties get in the way of having sex. Regardless
of how busy you are, if you still find time to have sex with your partner, you
have a healthy sex life. Just be sure to
remember that sex doesn’t have to be scheduled.
In fact, spontaneous sex can do wonders for a relationship.
Sign #5 – Sex is more
than Just an Act
Contrary to what most
people believe, sex is more than just having intercourse. An important component of having a happy and
healthy sex life is that of engaging in foreplay. Foreplay can be something as simple as
holding hands or giving a relaxing massage. Love notes, kind gestures, and doing something
that your partner may not expect on a daily basis are all easy ways to keep
your partner interested in you, both emotionally and physically. You have a healthy and happy sex life when
the romance continues on long past intercourse has come to an end.
So, do you have a happy
and healthy sex life? If a number of the
above mentions signs describes your relationship with your significant other,
there is a good chance that you do.
Even if you have a
happy and healthy sex life now, it is important to remember that things may change. Remember that as time passes, it may be
easier to let sex impact your relationship negatively. Be sure to always keep an open line of
communication with your partner, especially where sex and their needs are
concerned.
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